TYPE III - Naturally thin

Naturally this is simply FLAT all over.. and Smooooooooooth..

Me, being a waist guy, myself, love a guy with a waist to hold on to.. Just imagine sliding your hands around that smooth as butter skin..

On the other hand, I guess its a ready pick for bi's looking for that physically-feminine sexuality in their toy boys.. I would require you guess comment on this observation.

These are the guys that look cool in anything.. Particularly those loose jeans that is so far down their but crack you wonder why they bothered wearing it in the first place.. I always wondered how it stayed up there till I got my revolution with a date some time back.. You may have heard the saying .. slim guys have long.... well... You get by drift (wink)

Mango would predict theses guys to be too easy going.. it would probably stems from their lack of struggle towards anything, whether it may be diet, weight issues, clothes.. or even men

Speaking of Narcissus ...

In our journey through the MANGO CULTURE of the world, I decided to introduce some curious facts of history to both, increase you GQ (gay Quotient) and Probably start you on some new fantasies.. lol

This is the legend of the the famous NARCISSUS from where springs the term ' Narcissism' which means self obsession. Interestingly, this rather common term has a gay twist to it .. Read on..

The Legend is about NARCISSUS ( a beautiful boy ) and an nymph called ECHO. When he had reached "his sixteenth year", (fifteen years of age, by modern reckoning) every youth and girl in the town was in love with him, but he haughtily spurned them all.

One day when Narcissus was out hunting stags, Echo ,a nymph, stealthily followed the handsome youth through the woods, longing to address him but unable to speak first. When Narcissus finally heard footsteps and shouted "Who's there?", Echo answered "Who's there?" And so it went, until finally Echo showed herself and rushed to embrace the lovely youth. He pulled away from the nymph and vainly told her to leave him alone. Narcissus left Echo heartbroken and she spent the rest of her life in lonely glens, pining away for the love she never knew, until only her voice remained.

Nemesis (a GOD) heard this prayer and sent Narcissus his punishment. He came across a deep pool in a forest, from which he took a drink. As he did, he saw his reflection for the first time in his life and fell in love with the beautiful boy he was looking at, not realizing it was himself. Eventually, after pining away for a while, he realized that the image he saw in the pool was a reflection of himself. Realizing that he could not act upon this love, he tore at his dress and beat at his body, his life force draining out of him. As he died, the bodyless Echo came upon him and felt sorrow and pity. His soul was sent to "the darkest hell" and the narcissus flower grew where he died. It is said that Narcissus still keeps gazing on his image in the waters of the river Styx.

The Narcissus plant first sprang from where he died.

Narcissus is the botanic name for a genus of mainly hardy, mostly spring-flowering, bulbs in the Amaryllis family native to Europe, North Africa, and Asia. There are also several Narcissus species that bloom in the autumn. Daffodil is a common English name !!

TYPE II - The BUFF

THE BUFF and the Beautiful.. But beauty is only skin deep..

The second type of Gays is the type that are gym freaks.. The buff Bod is the muscular, weightlifter's body that has been shaped & refined through hours of blood, sweat & tears in Gyms.

A buff bod is never a result of the honest innocent participation in ordinary sports or athletics, such as basket ball, foot ball or hockey.. It is a MANUFACTURED body, created by thousands of man (or girly) hours of back breaking bench presses, flyes, butterfly curls etc etc.. Although the physical routine is exhausting, each workout is rewarded with a chance to check out the object of one's lubricious affections in the showers or working out on the station across you, in order to ascertain whether he has the necessary qualifications to be shagged.

Sadly, what is precious , must be rare.. The exquisite must not be 'common folk'.. But the buff bod is a common sight these days.. MANGO somehow feels that these bods are good just to ogle over, but too delicate to touch (in a strange way) . These are guys that would give Narcissus a complex.. Sadly, these are guys who would rather look at themselves during sex than their partner.. Yup.. superficial, so full of attitude and , un-dependable... Sigh! ! Why Why Why !!!

But true...

So Fellow Mangoes, if you have buff and he is good to you, THANK YOUR STARS, for these guys hard to come by.. For the faint hearted.. just window shop, boys.. Look , but NEVER touch..

1 . THE COWBOY - Tries toooo Hard

MANGO would like to share this interesting quest into the types of gay guys there are.. FYI, its research for a novel I'm working on .. As I browsed through the WWW to shape my characters, I was confronted by these 'classifications' made of the different type of gay guys based on their looks..

Although the US-version as an nasty as usual. I decided to add my own bit of indianization to mellow it down a bit.

NOTE : pictures are merely a representation, and may not ( or may (wink) ) suggest the celeb's sexuality..

Observations : Do join me is perusing through what these body types are trying to convey or look for.. It might just make interesting reading.. or better yet, you might just find what YOU are looking for !! Enjoy ..

ONE :

COWBOYS

Probably our first every fantasy.. A suave 'hero' on horse back.. Jeans, stubble, Cigarette, and shiny leather pants.. The likes of Dharmendra, Sunil Shetty, Anil Kapoor, Akki ( pre wax days).. walking in and sweeping you off your feet.. or better yet.. taking your captive and fking your brains out !! .. Well, not harm dreaming right .. MANGO loves these guys, but seriously, I do feel that they try too heard to grab attention.. So the next time you see a guy sporting the ' cowboy hat.. you know what type (of them )you are looking at..

Dare I introduce, India's latest Cowboy ...

A New Kind's SEXY - RG

MANGO thinks that this guy is really cute , just like his dad. Although we wish with our whole heart that he is gay, Time only has to tell... However, we will just have to let pics speak for them selves..

Mumbai: Rahul Gandhi emerged as a youth icon during the General Elections with even Prime Minster Manmohan Singh acknowledging his contribution to the Congress' thumping victory.

But it isn't only the youth that are looking to him for a voice. The country's lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans-gender (LGBT) community voted overwhelmingly for the Congress hoping that young Rahul would take up their cause.

"He's really cute... he's so good looking and young. He's like the Ranbir Kapoor of Indian politics. He has all the charm and he didn't even have to drop a towel," says gay rights activist Harish Iyer.

But critics say it's just a passing phase and that the support has more to do with Rahul's charisma than his performance.

"We cannot just trust them just because Rahul is good looking. He has to prove himself," says Nitin Karani, Editor-at-Large of Bombay Dost.

Naz Foundation founder and Executive Director Anjali Gopalan says, "There is this honesty that sort of shines across... but I hope that is real."

With the annual gay pride parades still not receiving support outside some key metros it looks like an uphill task for the rainbow brigade.

But their optimism runs high.

"He's still single and he is 38-39...and he has cute dimples and so do I. So he has tough competition," points out Harish Iyer.

It would be interesting to see if their dimpled icon actually proves to be their knight in shining armour.

(With inputs from Shambhavi Rai and Sholeen Damarwala)

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/rahul-gandhi-becomes-the-new-gay-icon/93307-3.html

Happy Onam !

Mango loves mallu guys.. Lean mean.. and long in between !!

Wish all mallus out there a wonderful Onam..

Sept 4th 2009

MANGO loves Indian guys, and I promise to keep to indian cuties through out, but guy.. guys.. guys..
Just look at these pics.. How could I resist ??

If nothing else, I wish these form a good inspiration ' as we indians like so much' to upgrade our photographs.. and poses..


http://homotography.blogspot.com has the best and most tasteful (pun intended) pics browsed so far.. Lovely beautiful men .. natural .. untouched.. virgin .. as God made them.. Perfect.

Perfection lies in discrepancies..

http://www.dnamagazine.com.au , another mag of beautiful.. beautiful men.

Bu I eternal fav is our all natural indiguys.. Yes, MANGO likes sweet sweet innocence..





















As I said.. perfect lies in discripencies..
the beauty of brown !! the heat of rawness.. and the sexuality of the wandering eye.

Party Fight

Rohit Bal at a party

Mon, 2008-10-20 17:37 — perezhilton

These journos are too interfering....The other photo is from chivas fashion show where rohit was seen with his boyfriend.

excerps from hindustantimes
The whole violence is believed to have been triggered after Rohit Bal aka Gudda's former boyfriend Inder Baweja (multi-coloured clothes in 'Pics': Fashion fracas') was emotionally stirred after seeing 'Gudda' with his current muse Lalit Tehlan (. He started picking up a fight with Rohit initially. Seeing this, other models too started pushing each other.

Until the party was going on, the models kept telling us not to take their pictures for privacy reasons and the moment they thought the media had left the place, they started removing their shirts and dancing. That very moment, the DJ stopped playing the music and requested them to wear their shirts again. Some models apparently got irritated as they were asked to leave if they remained unclothed. Some started throwing chairs at the DJ console in their drunk state.

http://www.pinkvilla.com/node/50523

EyeCandy1

Rohit Bal professes gay love for ‘boyfriend’ Lalit Tehlan

Mumbai, Sept 28: Flambouyant fashion designer

Rohit (Gudda) Bal has finally confessed that he’s gay and has professed his love for boyfriend Lalit Tehlan, who is a model. In an exclusive interview given to a news daily, Bal said “I have found someone who loves me

more than I love him. I don't walk any more. I float.” When asked who the lucky person was, Bal gushed “His name is Lalit Tehlan. He is a model and is good looking. He was going to be a part of an airline. Then we met and we realised we can fly higher together. It was love at first sight. Jab pyar kiya toh darna kya.” In the candid chit-chat, the designer said that his favourite clothes were jeans, shirts and cowboy shoes but he also liked to wear his boyfriend. Love for Rohit is- “Something that is difficult to come by. It's the most incredible gift from God to mankind. Most people compromise and many lose it too. I would say it's a spirited bird you cannot catch. And those who can hold onto it are the luckiest.” The designer accepted that every inch of him is romantic. Gudda, who has been pretty open about his sexual preferences since long, has never given an interview of this sort, though people close to him always knew of his sexual orientation. “Why shouldn't I be open? I think closet people are really very sad. In the day and time we are living, I don't think anyone gives a damn about your sexuality. No one cares whom you spend your nights with. And frankly, I have no control over my likes or dislikes. God made me like this. What I do in my bedroom has nothing to do with my abilities as a designer. When people say, 'Oh God, theek ho jayega', it's not diabetes that a person will get cured with medication. If you don't come out of the closet, you will never be happy. You can't be born a cat and act like a dog. It's better to live one's life with dignity and integrity.” Wonder what Rohit’s lover boy has to say about that hell of an interview, or has that left him speechless already? http://www.zeenews.com/news472543.html

HE IS THE ONE MAN I love

[20 May 2009]

Lalit Tehlan goes weak-in-the-knees while talking to Tania Ameer Khan about his mentor and lover, Rohit Bal.

Remember all those sizzling ‘Mills & Boon’ novels you were weaned on as a teenager where the dashing man meets a beautiful damsel and naazre mili, dil dhadka? Well, here's a love story that falls into the same genre except, of course, for an itsy-bitsy gender fact. The beautiful girl in this love twist is now replaced by a rugged hunk and the dashing man is swapped by an urbane, older man.

…Yes, we're talking about the love saga of one of India's top fashion designers Rohit Bal and his 23-year-old boyfriend Lalit Tehlan, a fresh face on the ramp.

…It was love at first sight for Rohit but for model Lalit, love blossomed much later, as the couple got closer. And irrespective of gender, sparks flew, they fell in love and now they live happily.

In a candid interview, the dynamic duo spoke to us about their strong bond.

Love at first sight!

Their first meeting wasn't planned so it wasn't the clichéd ‘common friends introduced us’ kind of meeting. The couple met when Lalit was modelling for a show organised by his friends at National Institute of Fashion Technology (NIFT).

Recalling his first interaction with Rohit (Gudda), he says, "When I walked the ramp, I wasn't aware that Gudda was the chief guest at that event. After the show, Gudda came to me and said, ‘What are you doing here? You should be somewhere else!’ - after which he asked me if I was a model."

Lalit explained to Rohit that this was just a one-off thing and that he hailed from a very conservative background and so was not too keen to take up modelling. "Gudda then convinced me and also came to my house the next day and spoke to my parents.

He persuaded my parents and that's how I entered the modelling industry. Gudda trained me. He also told me everything about modelling. He taught me how to walk and also made me lose weight. After my grooming sessions with Gudda, I started my stint as a ramp model. I have been modelling for almost a year now," reveals Lalit.

He adds, “Honestly, there was nothing in the beginning between us. But everything happened slowly and gradually. After sometime, I moved into Rohit's house and we started living together. It all happened slowly and steadily, not instantly. In fact, it is still evolving."

Diverse Backgrounds

What about Lalit's parents? Lalit had earlier said that he belonged to a conservative Jat family from Haryana, though he was born and brought up in Delhi. When asked about his parents’ reaction to his 'gay' love, Lalit claims that his parents have always been very supportive of all the decisions he has taken till now.

Says he, "My parents have always supported me and stood by me… They know about our relationship. I told them about it. They know that there is a man (Gudda) in my life."

Incidentally, Lalit is a trained boxer and before becoming a model, he practiced boxing at a local club in the Capital. As of now, he is pursuing B Com Honours from Delhi University via correspondence. India's top designer Rohit hails from a wealthy family and has studied at St Stephen’s College in Delhi. Be it their diverse family or educational backgrounds, love sure does conquer everything.

Colourful love

Talking about the most romantic thing the couple does regularly, Lalit says, "We like going together for a lot of parties. There are times when we make sudden plans and set out for a long drive or maybe a dinner outside. Sometimes, we call friends over for a party at home. In fact, everyday, we do something different."

For this couple, love means being there for one another and supporting each other like family. Lalit talks passionately about his lover Gudda. "He's someone who takes care of me. He gives me a lot of love and treats me like his own child. He teaches me and also scolds me at times. He explains to me what is right and wrong. Rohit is like my mother, father, sister, brother, lover - all rolled into one,” confesses Lalit.

When asked about his reaction to Lalit's immense love for him, Rohit says he feels the same. In fact, he initially laughs and then says, "Love is a very wonderful thing. There is love and there is love and there is more love. It's like loving a mother, loving a brother, loving a sister, loving a friend. Love encompasses everything. Love in any way, from anyone, is a wonderful gift from God. If Lalit says that he loves me a lot, then it's wonderful and a great feeling and it’s best kept there." …Love is indeed a wonderful thing! *Courtesy: Savvy

http://www.magnamags.com/index.php/200905204147/savvy/features/he-is-the-one-man-i-love.html

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Gay BENGALURU - HelpLine

Sangama:
A Resource Centre on Sexuality

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SANGAMA, 1st Floor, No. 7, 8th Main, 3rd Phase,
Domlur 2nd Stage, Bangalore - 560 071, India. Phone: 530 9591.
Email: admin@sangama.ilban.ernet.in

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SANGAMA is a resource centre on sexuality with a focus on the rights of
sexuality minorities (lesbians, bisexuals, gays and others who are
discriminated due to their sexuality). We document information in Kannada and
English through newspaper clippings, journals, newsletters, books, reports,
conference papers, films and internet. Our aim is to enlarge social, cultural
and political space for sexuality minorities. We work to help sexuality
minorities to come to terms with their sexuality and live with self-
acceptance, self-respect and dignity.

HOW TO REACH US: While traveling on the Airport road take the road bang
opposite 'New Shanthi Sagar Restaurant'. You will have Domlur Bus Depot to
your right. After 500 meters the road will curve to the left. 100 meters
after this curve you will find a 3 storied red brick (unplastered) building
sporting 'ENVIRONMENT AND HEALTH FOUNDATION (INDIA)' sign-board. Sangama is located on the first floor of this building.


SANGAMA is facilitated through a MacArthur Foundation's individual Fellowship
for Elavarthi Manohar.

http://www.sacw.net/SexualityMinorities/sangama.html

Inspirations .. and Motives..

Zoltan, Parag of Mumbai participated in the Mr.Gay International Contest early this year. His Participating highlighted the coming-of-age of the Indian Samesexuality.

Personally, I don't that the SameSex group is approriately represented with an man prouncing around in a tea-towel, but I must admit that the man has balls to do what he did.
What is the Indian SameSexuality today? ? Did I just invent a new term ?? 'SameSexuality' Has a decent ring to it ,doesn't it ?? ..Anyway, Whilst I browsed the photes of our man and the contest I came up with what I thought was a near perfect reflection of what the indian man-lover is today .. here they are...
The Indian SexSexual Man is a cool guy , suave, and knows his stuff. He is innocence and ready to explore (and to please, I may add.
He Enjoys the company of others , at the sametime he KNOWS how to make his presence felt.

Indian SameSexuality is raw, horny, extremely sentimental and will get into you without you even knowing it..

Yes, the Indian SS-ual Man is here.. and the World will Know it , sooner or later !!

This is Mango Masala's Salute to Mr.Zoltan.. The first True SameSexual Indian !!